Writing Our Lives, a conversation with Heather Lanier
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Hi everybody!
Welcome to this episode of I’m Here Too: Writing Our Lives, a conversation with Heather Lanier. Heather is an essayist, memoirist, poet, professor and TED speaker whose talk, “Good and Bad Are Incomplete Stories We Tell Ourselves” has been viewed over three million times and translated into 18 languages.
I had the good fortune of meeting Heather back in 2009 when we were roommates at the Bread Loaf Writers’ Conference. It was great to catch up and talk about a number of things including: writing and spirituality, staying attuned to our dreams, making space for more honest emotions including vulnerability, grief and joy, finding community and connection with other writers, and the challenges of writing about the people closest to us.
And make sure you stick around for the lightning round where Heather reveals the secrets to thrifting, among other interesting facts. If you’re a writer, a reader or someone who’s just looking to build connection in an ever changing world, then stay tuned because I think you’re really going to like this conversation.
Off we go, enjoy!
CHAPTERS
(00:00:06) Introduction
(00:02:04) Writing as a Spiritual Practice
(00:07:55) It All Belongs: Joy, Grief and Wholeness
(00:12:22) Finding Creative Community
(00:17:55) Lessons from Teaching and Staying Put
(00:27:02) “Good or Bad, Hard to Say”
(00:31:48) Writing About the People We Love
(00:37:28) Parenting, Memoir and Presence
(00:39:56) Protecting Energy and Finding Rest
(00: 42:24) The Lightning Round: Preoccupations, Superpowers and Building Connection
(00:53:47) Closing
About Heather Lanier
Heather Lanier is an essayist, memoirist, and poet. She’s the author of the memoir, Raising a Rare Girl, along with two award-winning poetry chapbooks. Kirkus Reviews called her full length poetry collection, Psalms of Unknowing, “a powerful poetic reckoning with motherhood and religion.” Her nonfiction has appeared in The Atlantic, TIME, Salon, The Sun, Longreads, The Wall Street Journal, and elsewhere. A recipient of an Ohio Arts Council Individual Excellence Award, a Vermont Creation Grant, and a New Jersey Artist’s Fellowship, she works as an Associate Professor of Creative Writing at Rowan University. Her TED talk, “‘Good’ and ‘Bad’ Are Incomplete Stories We Tell Ourselves,” has been viewed three million times and translated into 18 languages.